Many things have been found to be appealing to different people about humans.
However, there are four major ones that have been recurrent when many mention what gets them really attracted to some people. Here are the irresistible fives that can make you truly attractive and tempting to be resisted.
Calculated Humor Makes You Irresistible
Humor is the ability to amuse or be amused by experiences, events, and actions of a person, provoking laughter. The word ‘humor’ was derived from the humoral medicine of the ancient Greeks, which asserts that the balance of fluids in the human body, known as humors (body fluid) is controlled by the human health and emotion. However, research has shown that humor is attractive to both men and woman, BUT not in the same way; While women like men who make them laugh, men like women who laugh at their jokes.
Show Genuine Interest In What Others Like
Do you want to increase someone’s interest in you? It would be worthwhile to make sure they find out you’re interested in them. No one wants someone that does not represent their interest around them. Dr. Aron, a psychologist, affirmed that the subjects’ expectation that the other person was going to like them had a huge effect. “If you ask people about their experience of falling in love, over 90 percent will say that a major factor was discovering that the other person liked them,” according to Dr. Aron. Like Mahatma Gandhi said, find yourself in the service of others. There is no one that will not retaliate with a great smile or a better gesture when he or she is sure that the next person is interested in his or her interest.
Your Words Matter!
A random conversation with someone you’re not interested in can be a bad idea. Why? Emotional, personal information exchange promotes powerful feelings of connection.
Arthur Aron, a psychologist at the State University of New York at Stony Brook, is interested in how people form romantic relationships, and he’s come up with an ingenious way of taking men and women who have never met before and making them feel close to one another. Given just an hour to create the intimacy levels that typically take weeks, months, or years to form, he accelerated the getting-to-know-you process through a set of thirty-six questions crafted to take the participants rapidly. Under an hour it created a connection stronger than a lifelong friendship. In your words with people daily, be impactful without being boring.
Have you ever noticed that there are some people many feel comfortable talking to when they need to talk to someone? Have you ever asked why those people consider all other friends of their as not capable? Do the maths.
Great Personality Sells!
When people see you, what comes to their mind? How do you carry yourself as a man, or as a lady? How do people describe you in your absence? How do they even describe you in your presence? Are you seen as a loyal person? Can you keep secrets? Are you really who you say you are? Are you straight forward? The list of questions is endless. Know that people only want someone they trust and are rest assured can be banked on. Do you come across to people like that? Be a good dresser, walk with your head straight and you will definitely be the lady or man with a great personality.
However, aside from the points mentioned above, many other qualities have been experienced by so many people. Do you have any you have experienced? Do share at the comment section below.
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