DEAR NAOMI: This is my first Valentine's Day with my boyfriend, so I want to do something nice for him but not go over-the-top and freak him out. Any suggestions? —Just-O.K. Cupid
DEAR JUST-O.K. CUPID: Do dinner, cook something special, create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom or around the bath … but Valentine's Day needs to be every day of the year. Flowers should be given all the time.
—Love & Light, Naomi