Two years ago, I went through a phase that felt suspiciously like a mid-life crisis. I could no longer find joy in my husband, our three-year old son, or my work. I felt like the entire world was at war, and that I was powerless to do anything about it. Despair over not having published the book I'd been writing for six years pressed down on me all the time. I couldn't get pregnant, either—we had been trying for fifteen months—and this failure took me into the darkest depths of self-loathing. On the surface, my life was busy and full.
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9 WEIRD VAGINA ISSUES — SOLVED
Let's face it—there's a lot that can go wrong below the belt. From itches and odors to bumps and bleeding, sometimes it seems like you need a manual. So we consulted the experts for nine common vagina problems and how to deal—fast! You Noticed a Weird Bump: Who wouldn't freak out after seeing a lump or mark on their privates? This could be so many things, but it's likely not serious, says ob-gyn Alyssa Dweck, M.D., coauthor of V is for Vagina. It could be anything from an ingrown hair to a sebaceous cyst (a lesion under the skin), says Dweck. Warm soaks are
9 THINGS YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT SPERM
We've all heard the rumors about sperm—pineapple, hot tubs, ladies who are allergic. But what's the truth? We consulted the experts for the facts: It's Fast and Furious, Right from the Start Get this: The first moment of ejaculation contains the highest concentration of sperm, says board-certified urologist Harry Fisch, M.D., clinical professor of reproductive medicine at Weill Medical College of Cornell University.
3 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH MUCH TALLER GUY
Lots of women like tall guys. But there’s tall, and then there’s “oh my goodness, how are things even going to line up?” tall. Don’t freak out. “Couples that fall for each other find ways to make their bodies align,” says Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. Here are three must-know tips for making sex great even when your partner’s so tall, his man parts hit you in the belly button.
5 SIGNS YOU'RE IN A BETTER THAN NOTHING RELATIONSHIP
You’ve heard it said a million times that you’re better off alone than with someone who’s not right for you, but clearly the people who say that have never experienced the special sadness that comes with a mall food court dinner for one. You may not be with Mr. Right, but if you’re a serial monogamist, you’ve likely become so accustomed to having someone beside you that (almost) anyone will do. Here are five signs that what you have is not the real deal, but rather another notch on your codependent belt.
WHAT IT'S LIKE TO GET CIRCUMCISED AS A GROWN MAN
My wife has this energy and bright smile that a quiet, shy guy like me was immediately attracted to—but it wasn't exactly love at first sight. When we were in college, she actually dated my best friend for a couple of weeks at the beginning of the semester senior year. Luckily, that didn't work out, and we started seeing each other soon after. About two weeks into our relationship, we were already talking about marriage—and by spring break, we were engaged. We got married a year later.
WHY THAT GUY WHO'S SO MUCH INTO YOU SUDDENLY GOES MIA
“I can’t believe this,” my roommate Steph says. “That stupid ghosting mother-f**ker.” We’re at a bar drinking aggressively while she tries to make sense of why some dude named Patrick texted super cute with her for weeks, then had sex with her (wherein he allegedly came quickly), then continued texting for another few days before disappearing from the digital Earth. “Why would he do this?” Steph says while she swipes angrily at whichever dating app she’s using to try to find the anti-Patrick. For the fortunately uninitiated, “ghosting” is when two people are talking
THE HIDDEN HEALTH BENEFITS OF SEX
"Having sex regularly can do more than make you feel closer to your partner—it can actually make you physically healthier," says Hilda Hutcherson, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Columbia University and author of Pleasure: A Woman's Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need, and Deserve. Check out a few of the surprising perks you can reap from great sex.
WIFE OF FORMER IVORY COAST PRESIDENT IS JAILED FOR 20 YEARS TODAY FOR ORGANIZING ARMED GANGS FOLLOWING HIS 2010 ELECTION DEFEAT WHICH PROMPTED RIOTING THAT LEFT 3,000 DEAD
The former first lady of the Ivory Coast was today jailed for 20 years for 'undermining state security' during post-election violence in 2010-2011 that left nearly 3,000 dead. Simone Gbagbo, the wife of former Ivorian president Laurent Gbagbo was also accused of 'organising armed gangs' after her husband rejected results of the 2010 presidential elections. The court 'unanimously' condemned her to 20 years in jail, court president Tahirou Dembele said.
RITA ORA DRESSES DOWN IN SWEATS AND A SCRUFFY T-SHIRT AS SHE RETURN TO LONDON WITH BOYFRIEND RICKY HILL AFTER A BRIEF TRIP TO LA
She's rarely seen in a low-key outfit but even Rita Ora opts for comfort when taking a flight. The pop star was arriving at LAX on Tuesday after a brief trip to the US and as ever her boyfriend Ricky Hill was right by her side.The 24-year-old singer kept things casual as the pair of them made there way through the LA airport, heading for a flight to London.The young star was wearing a black outfit
JENNIFER LOPEZ DRESSES UP HER CASUAL OUTFIT WITH KILLER BLACK HEELS AND A STATEMENT COAT AS SHE LEAVES NY STUDIO
When you're as hot as Jennifer Lopez even sweatpants get matched with sky-high heels. The 45-year-old was spotted leaving a studio in New York on Monday wearing an otherwise low-key sports luxe style outfit. The singer kept her ensemble simple but chic with a combination of loungewear and eye catching items. She teamed a pair of luxury grey jogging bottoms with a black cotton polo-neck t-shirt but amped up the look with a pair of platform, stiletto Fendi shoe boots. The biggest statement
NAOMI CAMPBELL DENIES CATFIGHT WITH CARA DELEVINGNE FOR DISSING RIHANNA AT PARIS FASHION WEEK
Naomi Campbell has denied claims she got into a physical fight with Cara Delevingne in Paris on Sunday night. It was alleged by the New York Post's Page Six that the two British supermodels were attending the Garage magazine party at nightclub Castel when an altercation broke out after Naomi, 44, reportedly became upset with 22-year-old Cara for dissing their mutual pal Rihanna.
AMBER ROSE MAKES A RARE MOVE TO COVER UP HER BUXOM CURVES IN CLINGING WHITE LACE DRESS AS SHE STEPS OUT IN LA
She recently hit back at critics who slammed her for posting sexy and revealing selfies. But the usually-bold Amber Rose appeared to want to go under the radar as she emerged from the Ace of Diamonds nightclub in Los Angeles on Monday night. The striking model, who is known for her love of skimpy clothing worn to show off her buxom curves, opted to cover up more than she usually does.Her hourglass physique was accentuated by the frock, which was cinched in at her tiny waist with the skirt hugging her ample
SORRY SEAN! ROBIN WRIGHT REVEALS ''SHE'S NEVER BEEN HAPPIER'' OR HAD MORE ORGASMS THAN WITH FIANCE BEN FOSTER
‘He inspires me to be the best of myself. There's so much to learn. It's endless. How great! It took me a long time to grow up. Love is possible as life is possible.’ Robin, 48, started dating 34-year-old actor Ben in February 2012, and they got engaged two years later. The couple broke things off in November, but quickly rekindled their romance and attended the Golden Globe Awards together in January.'I've never been happier': The actress, 48, talked about how 34-year-old fiance Ben Foster 'inspires' her and how she laughs and orgasms more than ever with him. The couple are pictured at January's Golden Globes
KIM KARDASHIAN STICKS TO HER TRADEMARK SENSE OF STYLE AS SHE ENSEMBLE FOR PARIS LUNCH DATE
Another day, another day for Kim Kardashian to show off her trademark sense of style. And, true to form, the buxom reality TV star stepped out in Paris on Tuesday in another eye-watering design, making full use of her ample cleavage.
The newly-blonde star left her hotel in the French capital in dangerously low-cut top that revealed more than just a mere glimpse of her chest. The 34-year-old was going notably braless in the eye-catching top, which included a neat line of studs down the deep plunging v-neckline,
ICE PRINCE: RAPPER LAUNCHES RECORD LABEL ''SUPER COOL CATS''
Chocolate City rapper, Ice Prince is set to launch his personal record label while still signed to Chocolate City. Insider reports reveal that plans are at an advanced stage to announce the label, with a number of artistes signed. Recently one of the artistes, Stuntz, released his debut material,‘Ojukokoro’, a tidy rap single. Ice Prince has always hinted he has a record label in the works. In April 2014, during an interview with MTV UK, the rapper talked about the record label.
IN THE US: SENATORS MOVE TO LEGALIZE MEDICAL MARIJUANA NATIONWIDE
United States senators are set to introduce a bill that will legalise medical marijuana under federal law. Although several states in the US have legalised recreational marijuana in the last 2 years, this move will be the first attempt on a federal level. The proposal called the "Compassionate Access, Research Expansion and Respect States (CARERS) Act" is being championed by Senators Kirsten Gillibrand, Rand Paul and Cory Booker and will attempt to reclassify marijuana from Schedule 1 (drugs which are considered dangerous with no medical value)
IN LONDON: ARCHAEOLOGISTS TO DIG UP 3,000 SKELETONS FROM ANCIENT BURIAL GROUND
No fewer than 3,000 skeletons will be dig up by archaeologists from the Bedlam burial ground, London in preparation for its transformation to a new train station. MSN reports that a team of 60 researchers from the Museum of London's archaeology unit, will work in shifts 6 days a week over the next month at the Bedlam burial ground to remove the ancient skeletons, which will eventually be re-buried at a cemetery near London.
MAN KILLS FRIEND WITH CUTLASS DURING FIGHT
29-year-old bricklayer, Ibrahim Tijani, has been remanded at the Ikoyi Prison by an Ebute Meta Chief Magistrate's Court presided over by Mrs M. O. Tanimola, for allegedly murdering his neighbour, Bashorun Okanla, with a cutlass during a fight on February 8, 2015, at their Okun, Ajah, Lagos residence.
50 CENT: RAPPER'S 2-YR-OLD SON LANDS $700K MODELING DEAL
50 Cent (real name: Curtis James Jackson III) has revealed that his two-year-old son named Sire has signed a $700,000 modeling contract with a children's audio company. The 39-year-old rapper and entrepreneur, disclosed the information on the Angie Martinez radio show on New York's hip hop radio station, Power 105.1FM, March 9.
14-YR-OLD BOY GIVES CONTRACT TO MURDER HIS ENTIRE FAMILY
In an unprecedented and funny scenario, a 14-year-old boy has been arrested after he hired two of his classmates and gave them a contract to murder his whole family. The boy who cannot be named as he is a minor, has been arrested by the Florida police and he told them that he had been upset for getting grounded over bad grades. He said he built up anger towards members of his family, and this led him to hire his classmate to kill them. The boy was arrested after his father found the murder-for-hire contract
MURDER SUSPECTS SAYS WIFE COMMITTED SUICIDE WHEN HE CAUGHT HER CHEATING
Seun Alabi, a 33-year-old suspect in the murder of his 27-year-old wife, Bose, has told operatives of the homicide unit of Lagos State Criminal Investigation Department, SCID, Yaba, that contrary to the allegation that he killed his wife, that she actually committed suicide after he caught her sleeping with another man.
TRAGEDY: 2-YR-OLD BURNT TO DEATH IN IBAFO FIRE OUTBREAK
It was a tragedy of a great proportion when a 2-year-old baby was reportedly burnt to death in a fire accident that occurred in Ibafo, Ogun State, yesterday, March 9, 2015.
According to a Channel TV news report, the young victim was consumed in the fire that was ignited after gallons of petrol stored in the compound for sale by a neighbour, burst into flames due to heat.
IN ARGENTINA: 10 KILLED IN HELICOPTER CRASH WHILE FILMING REALITY TV SHOW
10 people have been killed in a helicopter crash in the La Rioja province of Argentina, BBC reports. A total of 8 French citizens and 2 Argentinian pilots are reported to have died in the crash. Among the deceased are 3 French sports personalities - Yachtswoman Florence Arthaud, Olympic swimmer Camille Muffat and Olympic boxer Alexis Vastine.
The crash is reported to have occurred while filming celebrity TV survival show 'Dropped', which
MALE FERTILITY: WEIGHT LOSS CAN BOOST SPERM COUNT
Are you obese and having difficulty in getting your partner pregnant? Then you may want to consider losing weight. The Endocrine Society has revealed that obese men who lose weight are more likely get their partners pregnant. That's not all, they also found that a cancer drug he
BOKO HARAM: FOREIGN SOLDIERS KILL 300 TERRORISTS AND RECOVER 2 BORNO COMMUNITIES
Troops from Niger and Chad have recaptured two communities in Borno State from Boko Haram insurgents, military sources say. The soldiers were also said to have killed 300 insurgents in the battle to reclaim Malam Fatouri and Damasak on Monday, March 9. 10 Chadian soldiers were reportedly killed in the battle while 30 Nigerien and Chadian soldiers were left injured. Chad and Niger recently launched air and ground strikes against Boko Haram in collaboration with Nigeria as part of efforts to rid the region
{PHOTOS } BOKO HARAM: NIGERIANS FLEE TO CHAD TO ESCAPE TERRORISTS
Some Nigerians in the troubled North-East have fled to Chad to escape Boko Haram attacks.The terrorists have operated in border communities with Chad and Cameroon and have forced many to flee their homes.A recent attack on Baga in Borno State saw many innocents being drowned as they attempted to escape via Lake Chad.Thousands of Nigerian refugees are also living in the neighbouring country, which has deployed 2,500 soldiers to help in the fight against the sect
HEART BREAKING: 9-MONTH-OLD BABY STARVED TO DEATH 2 WEEKS AFTER MUM DIED OF DRUGS OVERDOSE
A nine-month-old baby boy tragically starved to death in an apartment two weeks after his mother took her own life with a drugs overdose. Sara Kessler and baby Casey were both found dead in the apartment in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, UK, with the boy's corpse in the Casey Kessler was found dead in the living room of the flat after a concerned relative visited the home. Neighbours tell Mirror that the boy's Sara had struggled to cope after the death of her
DRUG DEALER: FULANI MAN SHOOTS BAYELSA YOUTH WITH AK 47 OVER FAILED 'IGBO' DEAL
A man, suspected to be a Fulani herder, has allegedly shot a 24-year-old Bayelsa youth in the neck after a Cannabis deal went sour. The unnamed youth was allegedly shot in the neck with an AK 47 rifle on Sunday in an attack launched by angry herdsmen on the Nyabiri community in Okordia/Zarama clan of Yenagoa LGA of Bayelsa State. Reports say the youth, who is presently being treated at the Federal Medical Centre, Yenagoa, was part of group fof youths that agreed a deal to supply Cannabis (locally called igbo) and
MAN-WOMAN: 72-YR-OLD HUSBAND GETS DIVORCE OVER CONSTANT BEATING BY WIFE
A 72-year-old retired civil servant, Olayiwola Ajayi, has the Igando Customary Court, Lagos, to thank for saving him from death in the hands of his wife, Isiwa, whom he says has a penchant for beating him over minor issues. Ajayi had dragged his wife to the court pleading to be separated from his wife because she always threatened his life through beating, among other things. Hear his plea: "My wife is fond of beating me, she beats me on any slight provocation, I am tired of being brutalised. A day cannot pass without her laying her hands on me. I am afraid
DELTA ACCIDENT: STUDENT KILLED IN GHASTLY AUTO CRASH AFTER FAILED OVERTAKING
A student has died in an accident that occurred near Double Delight Eatery along the Abraka-Urhouvie road, Abraka, Delta state at the weekend. Student Pulse gathered that the student was killed when a Toyota Hilux van rammed into a commercial bus before the overhead bridge in Abraka. The student reportedly died on the spot while the other four passengers and the driver in the bus sustained injuries.
ELECTRICITY METERS NOW SELL FOR N60,000
The cost of acquiring pre-paid electricity meters by consumers in the country has risen due to the fall in the value of the naira following the currency’s recent devaluation by the Central Bank of Nigeria. A single-phase meter, according to findings by our correspondent, can now be obtained for N39,375, while the three-phase meter now goes for N60,909. Before now, the single-phase and three-phase meters were selling for N25,000 and N50,000. However, with the latest development, the cost of the single-phase meter has risen by 56 per cent, while that of the three-phase meter has jumped by 20 per cent. This means that household electricity consumers, who are majorly the users of single-phase meters, will pay more for the devices in relative terms compared to the users of the three-phase meters.
I HATE VIOLENCE - PATIENCE JONATHAN
The wife of the President, Mrs. Patience Jonathan, on Monday told the presidential campaign organisation of the All Progressives Congress that “she is a woman of peace that can never be identified with electoral violence.” She said there was no way somebody like her who occupies the exalted office of the President of the African First Ladies Mission would be promoting violence under any guise.
YOU WILL NEVER BE LIKE AWOLOWO BODE GEORGE TELLS TINUBU
A Peoples Democratic Party leader in Lagos State, Chief Bode George, says a former Governor of Lagos, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, will never be like the late sage, Chief Obafemi Awolowo, no matter how hard he tries. Tinubu, who is a national leader of the All Progressives Congress, is said to be largely responsible for the successful merger of the APC due to his influence across the South-West and parts of the South-South.
FAYOSE ASKS BUHARI TO QUIT PRESIDENTIAL RACE
Ekiti State governor, Ayodele Fayose, has asked the All Progressives Congress and its presidential candidate, Maj. Gen. Muhammadu Buhari (retd.) to withdraw from the March 28 presidential election. Fayose said Buhari and the APC no longer had the moral right to participate in the presidential election, having allegedly lied to Nigerians on several occasions. According to a press statement issued in Ado-Ekiti by his Special Assistant on Public Communications and New Media, Lere Olayinka, the governor argued that the APC had lied severally to Nigerians.
He said, “In saner climes, you can’t lie and be discovered to have lied repeatedly as done by the APC and still want to stand for elections.
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