HELP I DON'T HAVE ORGASM DURING INTERCOURSE...

My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about three months. I enjoy making love to him very much, but intercourse doesn’t give me any pleasure. He can easily bring me to orgasm through oral sex, but I don’t feel any pleasure from regular sex. Sometimes, I can’t even tell if he’s inside of me or not. I feel so bad about it, and we’ve been trying to find some information that might help us, but there isn’t any. Why is this happening? It isn’t like I don’t know how to have an orgasm; I do but nothing works during intercourse. Can you help me?

Joan, Lagos

IS CURBING SEXUAL PERVERSION ACHIEVABLE?....s

A couple of years ago at a friend’s house in Surulere area of Lagos, a ritual took place every weekend in one of the apartments. The occupant, a guy, would bring home a lady every Friday or Saturday to spend the night. Most of them never return after one or two visits. This is because you are bound to hear the lady either weeping profusely, shouting abuses and curses at him, or simply pleading and trying to negotiate her release all through the night.

TAMBUWAL MAY GET POLICE PROTECTION AS APC GUBER CANDIDATE

There are indications that reprieve may come the way of the Alhaji Aminu Tambuwal with regards to providing him Police security following his triumph as the All Progressive Congress governorship candidate in Sokoto State. Sources disclosed that the provision of Police security for Tambuwal, is however borne out of the duty by the Police High Command to ensure that all such successful candidates of all the political parties, are given security protection because of their status before and during the 2015 elections.

2015: NIGERIANS WILL ENFORCE FREE AND FAIR ELECTIONS - AREGBESOLA OSHIOMOLE

GOVERNOR Adams Oshiomhole of Edo state and his counterpart from Osun state, Governor Rauf Aregbesola, yesterday declared that Nigerians will enforce free and fair election in 2015, saying that the developmental strides of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in its controlled states will sack President Goodluck Jonathan from Aso Rock come 2015.

REVEALED: WHAT OBASANJO ACTUALLY TOLD PDP GOVERNORS

DISCOMFORTING news for President Goodluck Jonathan’s re-election bid broke out from former President Olusegun Obasanjo’s Hilltop Mansion, Abeokuta, yesterday evening, indicating that the outcome of the ruling Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, governors who had gone there to plead for the President’s support was initially played down.

We can authoritatively disclose today that Obasanjo flatly refused to support Jonathan although Obasanjo had publicly said that he only explained to the governors his position on national issues.

NOBODY DOES MY KIND OF MUSIC —CYNTHIA MORGAN

Cynthia Morgan is a singer who is surefooted when it comes to her musical abilities. The light-skinned musician who recently released a new single titled Popori , has told Showtime that nobody does her kind of music. “At this point people don’t really compare me with the female artistes because I am on my own lane .They compare me with the male artistes. When you listen to my lyrics, you know I am not like the soft kind of female artiste.

WHY I CAN MARRY A PROSTITUTE —LAMBOGINNY

Fast rising  Afro pop sensation,   Lamboginny known for his humanitarian works   in recent times said, in an interview that he doesn’t know who his wife is,  adding that if she is a prostitute  and she falls in love with him, they would get married. Lamboginny ,whose song was recently made the theme song for COPA  Lagos Beach soccer

MUSIC IS AN AUTHENTIC REPRESENTATION OF MY EXPERIENCES —OFFIONG BASSEY

Despite majoring in Political Science and African American studies in the university, Offiong Bassey still feels she has a strong passion for music. In this interview, the Cross River State born songstress who dropped her debut album last year, talks about her upcoming album as well as her plans to break into the Nigerian entertainment industry among other issues.

I’M STILL WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO PROPOSE -SHIRLEY IGWE

Shirley Igwe doesn’t belong to the category of women who have to be padded, made-up and wear different masks to be beautiful. She has beauty bequeathed on her by nature, so much so that, before she left school she was already the beautiful face of Delta Soap. From modelling, she naturally metamorphosed into acting and now the Principal Protocol Officer to Governor of Imo State not to mention her prominence as a blogger.

NYANYA BOMBING: OGWUCHE'S N100M DEMAND A BIG JOKE — FG -

The Federal Government, yesterday, described the N100million demand by Aminu Sadiq Ogwuche, the alleged mastermind of the April 14 bomb blast that killed over 75 persons and wounded 100 others at a crowded motor park in Nyanya Abuja, as a big joke. Consequently, the government sought an outright dismissal of the fundamental right enforcement proceeding that was initiated before the Abuja Division of the Federal High Court by Ogwuche.

DANGOTE EMERGES AS FORBES AFRICA PERSON OF THE YEAR

Nigerian business man, Aliko Dangote has emerged as the Forbes Africa Person of the Year 2014. Other finalists of the most coveted award were Thuli Madonsela, South Africa’s Public Protector, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Nigerian author, Arunma Oteh, Director-General of the Securities and Exchange Commission, Nigeria and Donald Kaberuka, President of the African Development Bank.

CONFUSION IN ENUGU AS CORPSE OF JIM NWOBODO'S SON DISAPPEARS

There was pandemonium yesterday at Amechi, Nkanu-West Local Government Area of Enugu State as the community could not come to terms with former governor of old Anambra State, Senator Jim Nwobodo over where his,son,Jim, Ifeanyi Nwobodo Jnr would be buried. It was a show of shame at Amechi Awkunanaw in Enugu State as the burial ceremony of Dr. Ifeanyichukwu Nwobodo,

‘DEVELOPING NIGERIA ECONOMY THROUGH CAREER ENHANCEMENT IN VERSITIES'

Macaulay Olumese Iyayi Jnr. is a  British trained technology professional. His 10 years stint as media and technology expert with the Frost & Sullivan, global growth consultancy firm engaged in selling research on new technologies to emerging market globally. In this interview, he speaks on how best to tackle career development among universities graduates and youths generally.  Excerpts:What actually is the focus of this partnership? We partner with the Lagos Business School, Lagos State University,

WHY NIGERIA CANCELLED US MILITARY TRAINING - FG

The Federal Government, yesterday, gave reason for the cancellation of the training of Nigerian soldiers by American security experts, attributing it to logistic problem.

The U.S. Government, through its Embassy in Abuja on Monday said in a statement that “At the request of the Nigerian government, the United States will discontinue its training of a Nigerian Army battalion.”

KILLING OF 12 IN RIVERS COMMUNITY: RESIDENTS BLAME CULTIST POLITICIANS

Ogba Egbema Ndoni Local Government Area in Rivers State has never been a stranger to tragic happenings. It was in the news again over mindless killings as unknown gunmen stormed the community at about 7pm  last Friday, shooting sporadically. This time the scene of the act was Omoku, headquarters of the local government area. Nobody could say what provoked the heinous  act. But at the end of it all, 12 persons were confirmed killed, according

FISHERMAN ALLEGEDLY KILLS COLLEAGUE OVER N3,500

A 37-year-old fisherman, Taiye Agbaje, was yesterday, remanded in prison custody by an Ebute Meta Chief Magistrate’s Court, sitting at Oyingbo, Lagos, for allegedly killing his colleague, Monday Ukoro, 29, over N3,500. Magistrate K. Ariyo, ordered that the defendant be remanded in prison custody, pending legal advice from the Director of Public Prosecution, DPP.

EKITI INSECURITY: FAYOSE MEETS POLICE AUTHORITIES

Worried by the recent cases of mayhem threatening the security of lives and properties in Ekiti State, Governor Ayodele Fayose, on Monday, swiftly called a meeting of the police authorities in the state, among other stakeholders, so as to take a proactive measure to address the problem.

Recall that in the last few weeks, no fewer than three bank robbery operations were recorded in different parts of the state, leading to the loss of lives, among whom were police officers and a female member of the National Youth Service Corps, NYSC.

YOU'VE NOT SHOWN LEADERSHIP - KOLADE TELLS JONATHAN

A former Nigeria’s High Commissioner to the United, Kingdom, Dr. Christopher Kolade, on Thursday condemned President Goodluck Jonathan for not showing the right leadership in the manner he had been handling his responsibilities as the nation’s leader. He spoke at the sixth Christopher Kolade Symposium organised by the Nigeria Leadership Initiative, an organisation he was a pioneer patron.. He made specific reference to Jonathan’s decision to honour a political rally in Kano shortly after a bombing that killed several people early in the year, saying the best he could have done was “to postpone the political event.”

FIVE PDP GOVS MEET OBASANJO OVER JONATHAN ECONOMY

Five Peoples Democratic Party governors led by the Chairman, PDP Governors Forum, and governor, Akwa Ibom State, Godswill Akpabio, on Thursday held a closed-door meeting, which lasted for three hours, with the former President, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, in his Hilltop residence in Abeokuta, Ogun State. Other governors on the trip are the governors of Bauchi, Jigawa, Cross River, and Niger states, Isa Yuguda, Sule Lamido, Liyel Imoke and Babangida Aliyu respectively.

KIDNAPPERS HIDE FEMALE BANKER INSIDE BUSH.....

The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a suspected kidnapper, Mr. Anthony Agidi, for allegedly belonging to a gang which abducted a female bank worker, Mrs. Ladi Garba, in July this year. source learnt that the abduction of Garba was one out of eight operations which the gang had carried out in Delta and Lagos states. According to the police, Garba was an employee of Keystone Bank when she was kidnapped by the gang in the Lekki area of Lagos. Our correspondent gathered that the 33-year-old suspect was arrested by operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad at about 2pm