SIGNS YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH AN EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MAN

A man may be physically available but emotionally unavailable. Confused? Don't be. This brief article gives you 6 simple and easy ways to spot the unavailable guy. So please save yourself the stress and heartbreak by keeping these signs in mind when next you think you've found "the one."

1. No Plan: When you're courting someone, the right thing to do is ask someone out and make a plan for said date. When you're unavailable, you
   don't make plans. You call the person last-minute or send them the "WYD?" text to see if they want to hang out.
2. No Dates: There's no candle lit dinner or drinks at the bar. You only hang out, be it in groups, or at the person's house watching TV. There's no courting, so there's no dating.
3. No Sharing: They're not asking about your day or sharing their deepest thoughts. The idea is not to get to know someone because you don't want to invest in him or her emotionally.
4. No Regular Communication: They are only communicating when they want to hang out because, again, there's no emotional investment here.
5. No Laying: You may be having sex, but there's no cuddling or sleeping over. There's always a reason why they have to leave.
6. No Life: They are not inviting you into their life. You don't meet their friends or know anything about their family. Inviting you into their circle means this is real and the unavailable don't like things to get real. If they're extremely unavailable, you'll never even see the inside of their home.

In the end, this all means that there's no future with this person. If they're not communicating, getting emotionally invested or trying to spend real time with you, they are unavailable, an asshole or sometimes both and you should just let them go. Unless you're both unavailable and then you should just have at it!

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