When a man is in love with a woman, I mean deeply in love, not the mouth love, but the heart, mind soul and body love. There is nothing you can say that will make that man turn his back on his girl, there is nothing you can do. Even if you go to a babalawo (spiritual doctor) chant and say all you like, true love knows no bounds and the man might only have some tough moment but I bet you, he will always go right back to his woman, the one he truly loves.
When it is time for you as a lady to work on herself
Ladies, your sexiness, your beauty, your endowment (big ass, big boobs, fine eyes etc) can’t change what a man feels for another woman. So the earlier you realize this and have a life, the better for you. There are one million and one men out there, why die for one? If no man, I mean no man, from your work place to your home, to school, to your social group etc. sees no good in you then girl, it is time for you to wake up. Something is definitely wrong with you. I am not talking about going to seek spiritual help, I am talking about your character, your attitude, your manner of approach, your composure. Work on yourself those little things your friends have been telling you, work on those things your co-worker has been telling you, be a little nice, be a little welcoming and be out going and don’t just jump at any man you think you like, be sure that man likes you back.
‘I am sexier than the girl he is dating’, sorry girl, he can’t see that, ‘I dress up better than that local champion he is dying for’, well girl, he can’t seem to see you but that local champion, so why not wake up and get a life instead of being in competition with someone who doesn’t even know you exist?
Dear lady, why point finger at an innocent girl?
Most innocent girls have been killed by jealous and desperate girls for no just cause. When desperate girls see a man in love with another girl, they assume the girl has some kind of spiritual hold on the man and then they go ahead and cook their own, why, why, why? This is totally bad, not even when a man leaves you for another girl should you go this far. If he is truly your man, he will always come begging, he will always come back to you. The woman who the guy loves might not have any strong hold on this guy, it might be a pure through love that knows no bounds and at the end you will be the loser.
Trying to wear another woman’s shoe just to impress a man
Haba, haba, some ladies are funny and this is sickening, how can you trace a girl to where she shops, just because you want to know what she wears so you can go ahead and wear same just to impress a man? Let me break it down. Mr A is in love with Miss B, Miss A goes about tracing Miss B to know what and what she wears, the kind of hair do she goes on, the kind of makeup she wears so she (Miss A) can impress Mr A. Miss A is only putting herself up for a battle that no one is fighting with her, she is just fighting herself. And the funny part is, Miss B might not know all these are happening and Mr. A might not even notice Miss A. So girl wake up from your slumber, when a man truly loves a woman, there is nothing, I mean absolutely nothing you can do. Be the Miss world for all you care, where his heart is, is where he will sleep.
Men are unlimited, as far as I am concern, so why kill yourself for one?
It is sickening to see women compete over a man, in fact everything about women is competition but my dear ladies, the one competition I say no to; is when you compete over a man. Men are unlimited, there are men all over the world, if you can’t get a black man go ahead and get a white man, if you can’t get a white, go and get an Asian man, must it be a black man, must it? There are men in different shapes and sizes, there are men scatter all over, why kill yourself for this one, why fight a woman for this very one. Some girls will say “ is suffered with him”, wait, are you the first? People have been victimized and they move on and most times, the best comes for them. What about men who trains a woman through university and afterwards the lady elopes with someone else. Please understand that in this human race, anyone can be a victim.
Every woman is guilty of competing over a man
I know every lady reading this will ask me how; well this is how, when you break up with a man, you always go back to see what kind of girl he moved on with, you are always conscious of the fact that the new girl should not be finer or prettier than you, well this is also competition over your ma (ex). The girl post bikini picture on instagram, you and your fat body go ahead and also post bikini picture, not knowing that you are fooling yourself. She post pictures on facebook, you too go ahead and post picture, she tweet, you tweet. When the coin turns to your side, and you happen to be prettier, the next thing you say is; I dumped him… oloshi, dump kini… or some girls will be like “I am moving forward to the better” some will be like “he can’t get my type”. Hmm be there, what makes you feel it is your type he is looking for? If he was looking for your type I bet you he would have gotten it. The lady he is with now is exactly the type he was looking for even while putting up with you. You might be better than the new girl but what he wants is what he went for and if you are truly better, yes a good man will come for you.
Hahahahhahahahaha, this is a mess as far as I am concern. Going as far as giving a man all the sex styles, all naughty styles, in the world will not make him choose you. Name any style and her juicy legs are open waiting to give, you are just miss -sing yourself. If he is not meant for you, you can’t win this man over from his other girl.
Married women and their banter
So you discover your husband have this slim, tall light skinned girl he is dating outside your marriage and you are fat, short and dark and then you decide that you must be like her. Well OYO (on your own) is your case. You go ahead and bleach your skin, you kill yourself at the gym, you listen to silly advice from people who are not wearing your shoes. I ask why not go and get tall (now bimini is laughing); oh I forgot, you go ahead wearing heels and God help you, you don’t break your legs. Well if there was any way some married women will shape up to look exactly as their husband’s mistress they will do it.
Single ladies
There is one thing you must understand; when a man is done with you he is done. You should be done too; I know this isn’t easy but we have to try and move on to better things, better life and better you. A man breaks up with you and instead of looking at the reasons he broke up with you, you are busy looking at the girl he is with. You are busy competing with the girl he is seeing now. It is now about the girl not the break up anymore, it is high time you get your wakeup call and leave innocent girls alone. Your supposed man went to her, and it happens that she needed a man and both are good together. What if this is the very girl God destined for him, ohoo you didn’t think that out. The painful part is, most girls who fights over a man are always damn pretty. Why not seek God’s face and work on being a better you.
For those girls who finds pleasure in another woman’s man
It is sad that most girls can’t help but be destroyers; they find joy in being with a man that is taken. In fact sex is sweeter, interesting and more better with other woman’s man to them. Haba, them do you? You go ahead looking for reasons why the guy is not heads over heels for you, why does he love the other girl, then you decide to make it a duty to compete with her all so you can win a man who is not yours. You then go about telling the man all those things you have found out about this girl friend of his, how she sleeps around, how she does this and that, how she is a whore. Girl, who told you he didn’t know all that? There is a reason why a man sticks to his woman, no matter what you do, you can’t change the love that man has for that woman.
Giving him all the styles of sex to make him choose you
Hahahahhahahahaha, this is a mess as far as I am concern. Going as far as giving a man all the sex styles, all naughty styles, in the world will not make him choose you. Name any style and her juicy legs are open waiting to give, you are just miss -sing yourself. If he is not meant for you, you can’t win this man over from his other girl. Fafafa fallacies, you failed, epic failure. Even if the other girl is a deadwood on the bed, if that is where his heart is, there is nothing, no sex, no romance, no gift will make him stay with you. So girl, know where you stand before you go about fooling yourself for a man who doesn’t have you in his agenda. When he is done, he will clean his mouth and work away, acting like you don’t even exist.
Married women face your husband not the other woman
Married women can pray sha, and they don’t pray for their home or husband, they pray strictly for the girls who are doing their husband. Their prayer point in church is always “let the girl die” madam the girl no go die, na you go give yourself heart attack. If your husband is going out with any woman, your duty is to call him to order, try and do the things he likes, try and give him peace in his own house. If a man can’t find peace at home he goes elsewhere looking for peace. So married women, deal with those things you do wrongly and do some fun things that will bring your husband home. Do you know; as cheap as ludo is, it can keep your husband home? Even while he is in the office, all he will be thinking of is “I will beat my wife in ludo today”. Yes it might sound funny but very little thing keep men glued. They are like babies and learn to treat them that way and when they want to be a man, let them have their way.
If you kill yourself over a man, my dear there are thousands of girls, ladies, women who are ready to have him as soon as you are buried. In fact one will be consoling him at your burial.
Until next time, I wish you peace, happiness and joy in your relationship
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