LOVE LETTERS: DEAR NAOMI

DEAR NAOMI: This is my first Valentine's Day with my boyfriend, so I want to do something nice for him but not go over-the-top and freak him out. Any suggestions? —Just-O.K. Cupid

DEAR JUST-O.K. CUPID: Do dinner, cook something special, create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom or around the bath … but Valentine's Day needs to be every day of the year. Flowers should be given all the time.

—Love & Light, Naomi

TO FALL IN LOVE, ASK YOUR OWN QUESTIONS

Like everyone else, I was intrigued by The New York Times' recent Modern Love column, "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This" and felt compelled to share it on Facebook. In it, University of British Columbia writing professor Mandy Len Catron explains a 1997 study conducted by Arthur Aron, PhD, a professor of psychology at Stony Brook University, where two people were instructed to ask one another 36 increasingly intimate and very specific questions.

'THE DIRTY WAR': SELFIES OF TERRORISM, VIRTUE, AND COVERT SEXUALITY

For nearly three years Chrystal Callahan was the only westerner in the Russian republic of Chechnya—or at least the only one with a permanent address and a government job. As a host for an English program on Grozny TV from 2009-2012, she became a public face for the post-war nation, reading the news and doing features on cultural events with an audible Canadian accent, her long black hair swooped back in a scarf. In a report for Russia Today, the newscasters concluded: "It is hoped that the Canadian face

TOKE'S MOMENTS: LIES MEN TELL

NEW MUSIC: YEMI ALADE - TAKING OVER ME FT. PHYNO

NEW MUSIC; REMINISCE FT. OLAMIDE & PHYNO - LOCAL RAPPERS

TOYIN LAWANI, VICTORIA KIMANI & HARRYSONG STUN IN HOUSE OF MALIQ MAGAZINE

Toyin Lawani, Harrysong and Victoria Kimani cover HOUSE OF MALIQ Magazine February Issue. They discuss their career and what their future holds for them.

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LADIES ONLY: 10 THINGS MEN FIND UNATTRACTIVE IN WOMEN

Women love gossip. They notice the smallest things that men do wrong and then discuss them with their girlfriends. What about men? Do they notice ladies' mistakes? Does an average guy whose occupation has nothing to do with fashion really understand anything about women's outfit, perfume, or makeup? Some do. Here are 10 things they find unattractive:

1. Intricate Hairstyle: An intricate hairstyle is alright for a carnival or an extravagant photo session in a studio. In all other situations natural-looking hair is preferred.

MEN ONLY: 5 WAYS TO TELL IF A GIRL LIKES YOU

How many times have you been twenty minutes into a conversation with a woman... and asking yourself 'Does she like me or is she just being polite?' It would be so much easier if they just came right out and said it, wouldn't it? But they won't. So it's up to you, as a man, to take notice of the subtle signals a woman is giving you, and act accordingly. If you don't have your eyes wide open for these signals you may wind up in a dead end conversation with a girl who has no interest in you past the free drinks you've been feeding her… Or even worse … you may wind up walking away from a girl who is practically jumping at the chance to follow you back to your place and tear your clothes off.

10 SECRETS MEN TELL THEIR FRIENDS BUT NOT THEIR WIVES

Yes, men tell women what we think you want to hear because let's face it: you're the ones deciding if there'll be sex tonight or not. If you ask guys to communicate, they think it's a trap. Women say they want men to be honest but when men open up, women don't like the answers.Here, YourTango presents 10 things men tell their buddies that they don't tell their wives and girlfriends:

24-YR-OLD MAN CLAIMS TO BE PRESIDENT JONATHAN'S SON

In the past few days, the photo of this young man, Ibime Belema-Jonathan, has been viral on the social media with him claiming to be President Goodluck Jonathan's illegitimate son. According to the reports, the 24-year-old guy believes he is one of the president's sons born outside wedlock and the photo that has been passed around speaks of a striking resemblance with the Nigerian leader and with the explanation that follows, one may not need to look too far to see that there may be some truth in it.

WOMAN SELLS NEIGHBOUR'S BABY FOR N250,000 IN DELTA NIGERIA

A woman in  Akwukwu-Igbo community, Delta State has been arrested after she allegedly sold her neighbour’s baby for the sum of N250,000. The woman, Eunice (surname withheld) sold the baby to a woman in Lagos who is said to have been married for 18 years without a child.

NURSE ALLEGEDLY POISONS 21 PATIENTS KILLING 3

A hospital nurse in Manchester, United Kingdom has been charged with murder after it was revealed that he killed three patients and poisoned 18 others by contaminating saline bags and ampoules with insulin. 49-year-old Victorino Chua was also said to have deliberately altered the dosages on prescription charts while working as a staff nurse at Stepping Hill Hospital in Stockport.

PHOTOS: KRIS JENNER WRAPS UP GLAMOROUS FUR COAT AS BRITISH STARS DRESSES UP AT THE NATIONAL TELEVISION AWARDS

The nation’s biggest television stars turned out in force for the 2015 National Television Awards and but it was Kris Jenner who stole the show on the night. Kris looked every inch the American superstar she is known to be as she arrived on the red carpet at London’s 02 arena on Wednesday evening in eye-catching fur coat. The Kardashian matriarch oozed glamour as she donned the

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AREGBESOLA PLANNING TO DISRUPT TRIBUNAL SITTING - OISORE

The governorship candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party in Osun State, Iyiola Omisore, has accused the Osun State governor, Mr. Rauf Aregbesola, of planning to use political thugs to prevent the Election Petitions Tribunal hearing matters arising from August 9 Osun governorship election from sitting on Friday (tomorrow). Omisore’s media aide, Mr. Victor Oriola, said this in a statement made available to our correspondent in Osogbo on Wednesday. The panel has shifted the adoption of written addresses by

JONATHAN HAS DESTROYED ARMY - SAYS TINUBU

The National Leader of the All Progressives Congress, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, on Wednesday said President Goodluck Jonathan had destroyed the integrity of the Nigerian Army.Tinubu, who addressed supporters of the APC in Katsina State during the party’s presidential campaign, was reacting to the claim by the Nigerian Army that the original certificates of the APC presidential candidate, Maj. Gen. Muhammadu Buhari (retd.), were not in its custody.

JONATHAN SEEKS SANUSI'S SUPPORT FOR RE-ELECTION

President Goodluck Jonathan on Wednesday visited the Emir of Kano, Muhammad Sanusi II, in his palace in a bid to get the traditional ruler’s blessing for his re-election bid. He was in the city in continuation of the Peoples Democratic Party’s presidential campaigns. The relationship between the two became strained last year when the President suspended Sanusi as the governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria. Jonathan had suspended Sanusi as the apex bank’s boss over what was described as financial recklessness and thereafter directed the Financial Reporting Council of Nigeria

FIVE NIGERIA COPS HELD FOR TAKING N150,000 BRIBE

five policemen attached to the Anti-Robbery Squad of the Area M Police Command have been put in detention for allegedly taking a bribe of N150, 000 from a suspected fraudster. It was gathered that the police officers had arrested the complainant, identified simply as Ifeanyi, for allegedly engaging in internet fraud. He was said to have been led to the nearest ATM to make withdrawal so as to be free of the accusation. A police source said,

KATSINA COLLEGE RELEASES BUHARI'S STATEMENT OF RESULTS

The Government College, Katsina (formerly Provincial Secondary School) on Wednesday released the credentials of the All Progressives Congress presidential candidate, Maj. Gen. Muhammadu Buhari (retd.).

Copies of the credentials from the college were made available to The source by the Director   of Media and Publicity, APC Presidential Campaign Organisation, Garba Shehu, shortly after Buhari told journalists in Kano that he had formally requested the institution to make his documents available.

UPDATE: POLICE AND PARENT DISAGREE ON SUSPECT'S AGE

The Enugu State Police Command has insisted that it will conduct a thorough investigation to ascertain the true age of Sunday Okeagu, a suspect accused of raping 15-year-old Joy (pseudonym). Sunday’s mother, Bridget, had said her son was born on February 15, 1999, but the state Public Relations Officer, DSP Ebere Amaraizu, said the police were working to determine Sunday’s real age and culpability